I took my sibling to see A Wrinkle in Time the other weekend and it was a gorgeous, funny, inspiring movie. (Spoiler alert) By far my favorite quote is from Reese Witherspoon’s character Mrs. What’s It when she tells Meg (played by Storm Reid) “To you, I give you the gift of your faults.”
That quote has been bouncing around in my head since we left the theater.
I just love the use of the word “faults” we often see lessons like what makes you different makes you beautiful! But we don’t talk about the things in you that might not be seen as beautiful or nice or pretty or whatever, we rarely get told to embrace the uglier sides of us.
Meg is smart, she’s sarcastic, she’s insecure and she’s angry. Even when everyone else around her tries to get her to give up on her father, give in to conforming, and squash her anger, she doesn’t let it go. And in the end she learns that she doesn’t have to. It’s that anger and the refusal to give up on her family that has her defeating evil and reuniting with her dad and brother in the end. She uses her faults and is better for it.
I feel like this movie gave me the gift of my faults as well. It made me look inside and try to figure out what my faults actually are and how I should lean into them instead of pushing them down hoping they’d go away.
I’m an over sharer, loud at times, withdrawn in others (a classic Gemini) I’m stubborn and argumentative, and quick to have my feelings hurt and yet I don’t hate these things about myself. I’ve learned to recognize them, use them and not turn away from who I am.
What about you?
Make sure to go see A Wrinkle in Time in theaters and support a wonderful heartfelt movie and if anything else go just to see Oprah amazing jewel eyebrows and glitter lipstick as Mrs. Which.